my little thought ... this weekend..

Special my letter for my sis..my best friend  who was confused and desperate

believe GOD ( Allah swt) is always with us 

To my lovely sister

Dear sis...

‎​ OK I guess to start with ..Bismillahi rahmanirrahim... ( in the name of Allah ... May Allah protect and save us )..

Sure... I know exactly what your feeling .. and I know you ,really really love your husband,

Sister... you're not the only women who is facing such a problem.

All of mom or wife have felt jealous and suspicious for one reason .. you have to be more patient... but must take being heart and please be calm . Please ,analize the situation first ..dont react emotionally. Make sure , clearly ... talk to your husband regarding your feelings or misunderstandings about him. don't react in a destructive way.dont argue and don't attact 'someone with your suspicious . If you are getting into jealousy, tell him first ..discuss the matter , I am sure he will understand and make you feel better.and it will definitely help you to stop being jealous. is your husband is having an affair and spending all his time with other woman,? if .. so You've to right to be jealous and suspicious ! and you have to make action and reaction for this ! complain about it .

Sister .... .some jealousy is a natural reaction to a bad relationship...Believe me that Suspicious thoughts can become chronic and difficult to reason with. And Not healthy for the relationship at all.. with your husband especially .

I'm sure .. that All husbands should learn this lesson... let him know ,that its not Good for marriage man make a relationship or go out with another woman , its illegal relations.. Do you realise how lucky you are. Sis...to be marry with him? Be thankful for what you have. .. If you believe in him, believe in his completely; give him all your trust... when your husband telling the truth .. he swears , he has'nt been with anyone special relationship...he didn't lie to you ... ...( he take islam as fundament in his life .. right ? ) Sister ...........May Allah give you strength... and i know you will..