my dear friend FA ...

I wanna to share....*My mind is so disturbed

Remember my friend.FA I wrote . .my posting .2 / 3 month ago ( I'm not sure ),who to met me @ the bank ?

Yes, she came home And I heard the "story" .. A true personal story, about her condition now.

About Her husband lost job since two years ago, and It was tottaly shock for her and family.

*I listened with a deep feeling #“It's hard to explain what I feel when I heard her story.

The 'story began..she told me..

"I support my family on it.

I don't know how I am going to survive anymore.

With the economy in such a mess, I had been helping financially. .

I apply for everything that I am qualified for, but nothing is happening.

I have been trying to support our family ,like selling something ( cake,food ctc). But. Most of the time I am borrowing for money to pay for all of..from the bank etc

I am depressed. I am finding it harder and harder .

My children are grown, but they need help, too, as they are struggling and I can't help them now.

I continued to listen, with a "sigh" take a long 'Breath'.. I told to myself .. what should I say?

*made me tear up..

I jut tell her, be patient.be patient ....dear..

.she just smile...

Then...

She tell me ..with a"tons ' complain

with honestly..............ida,.................,some time I fell I'm so angry to my destiny. Why....??.

I know..and realized

Without money means we couldn't buy the gadgets, have fun with friends or do something fun for ourselves

so..you know our friend..?*we have many friends who are often related to each other before

Believe it or not, most of our friends are going away...really away from me.

We can't catch up the information between us and them.

It's just like living in the jungle where there's no link to the outside...

I realized ...The booming gadget is smart phones.BB or something like that..

Most of our friends are using it and they can do chit chat or send message between them through it.

They have their own group in it..

I'm as the one who don't have it I don't know any info from them.

When I see each other, we are such a latest person who know that the world is round.

One time, they arranged an occasion. They wanted to gather in one mall. They made an appointment through smart phones and they didn't tell us the info.

When we go to the high class mall, mostly they wore the cool things on them. Gadgets, bags, cars, clothes...very expensive!

How bout me.. ,us?

Just wear that we can wear....not buy anything, just walk to get the atmosphere...

For F A my dear friend....* I try to “comfort” her

I Know. ... you don't have any real friends or anyone to talk to... about your problem.. I try to help as best I can..

I can not imagine if I were you...

BUT I just to says... FA ..We consider myself fortunate and grateful . ..you stll have mother, brother , sister ,children.. .I think you should be grateful if you have one who can support you and your family.

and Then You are healthy..with good health, you can find and try to help your family in making a money ,in carrying out this life.( * so sometimes.. we dont undersstand the blessing of being healthy..right.?.)..
SEE ... how many people in the world ..who poorer than you....???????????????????

There are millions people around the world with not enough food and eat .they are starving, high struggling and living under harsh condition...

We have Grateful.. FA ..come to learn that we should be grateful for everything in our life..

Then She says..

Sometimes i feel desperate..what happens next?I am scared. ..

So,About OUR Friend

So many things that we didn't know about our friends..we do not know, they have a problem themselves..

but me as your friend, I 'm not same like them ....I'm trying helped you through problems, through things good and bad. ...

Friendship is what gets you through the bad times and helps you enjoy the good..i always beside you..FA

Then....

We're talking about the material, the things, the city that people are so consumptive.

The mall is so many. And the people are busy to catch up those.

They try to have the great gadgets on them...for what?

About Gadgget..about their life style ????No. ....FA......you're tottaly wrong ..think its just your feeling ..

Why it made you so angry and upset too.???

You told me... you don't have the newest gadgets. you can't afford those. you are not so chic anymore.....??/???

You don't know the new trend in fashion. ????.

You felt felt so down????

Isn't it bad? Isn't the technology killing the people who can't afford for those??..

And why do you so embarrassing? FA. my friend..?????..you dont have New Gadget?

is it necessary ??..You realized that.. we would satisfied if we are look more and more .

realized ..your situation is much more better than millions other people around us.. around the world...so many people less fortunate than us...SO

Something like , you felt so small. ..????you felt you don't have anything..?????

They wear the expensive tag price. {Some of them paid it with the credit cards and they just paid the minimum taxes...&*^%%$}

They drive the luxurious cars. ?

They eat in the highclass restaurant. {maybe facilitates from credit card promo ones ?}??

They go the high class mall. ??

All the things are just for show off to show that they are able to have it..I dont know perhaps?

Or they have to work so hard to get all of those, 5 days in a week from dawn {if they're not getting late because of traffic jam} to lately night {to avoid from traffic jam}. So no wonder if they do all those things...

It's really sounding so pessimistic of you ...???. dont felt like that ..FA.

Change your mind set ..FA my dear friend....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You have trying to change my mindset of life. You're happy for the gifts we have.

You've thankful that You've not homeless, ..

You don't need to shy or embarrass

FA..........dear..

Without those things, we're not dying!!!!

We're just trying to live .. Just surrender to ALLAH swt our GOD ,

Always keep in faith that the life is like a wheel. One day, We believe, the wheel of us is going up. Praying and doing the best things.

I just hope things change for the better soon for FA , husband and family.

You are in my Prayer FA.. I don't know,, how people can get through these awful times without Allah ..
We believe..Allah with us..............

FA.. my friend...i feel your pain, your difficulties.

You are going through a difficult time ..I know it .. I pray that Allah swt eases your pain and gives you the best ,..But please know that Allah has written this - and He gives us whats best for us, which is not always what we want.....I can relate to you so much...

Please take a very good care of yourself and your daughter, your son your husband ,

I do care for you a lot! .................Hugs....